“Your help during a trying time was priceless. Thank you again.”
KA, Dad, London
Fathers4Justice is the world’s largest shared parenting campaign group with over 55,000 registered supporters. Founded in 2001 by Matt O’Connor, F4J has over 15 years experience of providing help, support and advice for fathers, grandparents and other family members going through the family courts, as well as winning shared residency for countless dads.
If you’ve got a problem seeing your children, we can help.
How we can help you
- We know how bad things get. We will help you talk things through and explore your options.
- We will give you independent, confidential advice on your case.
- We are fathers who have been through the system, and won.
- We will give you options for further ongoing support in your case.
Our Online Forum
Our private online help forum can offer you invaluable help, support and advice from other fathers, parents, relatives and the F4J Team. Share your concerns and problems with problems with people in the same situation as you.
A year’s subscription to our online forum is £30.00. To register visit here.
F4J Case Workers
Fathers4Justice case workers are available on a first come, first served basis. They will provide a detailed support service to help you move quickly with your case including:
- Case Review & Consultation: including telephone consultation, written summary and action list.
- Hourly consultation thereafter ref court applications, advice, support.
- We will require a concise summary of your case, PDF files of any relevant documents and disclosure of all relevant issues.
- We will assist you with advice on Child Arrangement Orders, Cafcass, Court Hearings, Shared Residency.
- False Allegations, Parental Alienation, Police involvement and Contact Handovers.
To check availability and fees email firstname.lastname@example.org
Emergency Child Recovery
If you fear your child may be removed from their home to another part of the UK, or abroad, please contact us immediately at email@example.com so we can advise on how to prevent this.
If your child has recently been relocated to another part of the UK, without your consent, and there are no children’s proceedings, we can assist in the lawful recovery of the child, provided you have Parental Responsibility. This is subject to an assessment of your case and the length of time the child has been relocated.
Fathers4Justice have successfully advised fathers in the recovery of their children in emergency cases where the child has been removed and we have secured Residency Orders for these children. We also advise on how to manage the Police and authorities in these instances. For further information and costs, email firstname.lastname@example.org
Matt O’Connor is the founder of Fathers4Justice and the UK’s leading fathers rights campaigner. A regular contributor to the media on the issue of fatherlessness and the family courts, Matt has advised numerous celebrity dads on their cases and helped countless others win shared residency in the family courts.
Matt is available to assist with a small number of individual cases each year, subject to availability.
Please email email@example.com to check availability and fees.
Frequently Asked Questions
HOW DO YOUR COSTS AND SERVICES COMPARE TO THAT OF A SOLICITOR?
We offer an independent service based on the experience of thousands of fathers and other relatives who have been through the family justice system since our foundation in 2001. We tell you as it is, not how the government and family lawyers would like you to believe it is. Our costs are a fraction of those charged by solicitors (£200-£300 an hour), who have a vested interest in long, protracted legal cases. We want your case to be resolved as quickly as possible.
WHAT SORT OF ADVICE DO I RECEIVE?
We provide personal support and advice based on our unrivalled experience of the family justice system over the last 15 years. Whilst there are no easy solutions, our track record is one of successfully assisting fathers, grandparents and other relatives re-establish relationships with their children and grandchildren.
ARE THERE ANY USEFUL TIPS BEFORE I START MY CASE?
Knowledge is power. Use Fathers4Justice as your one-stop library for information on how to represent yourself in court with our support.
WHAT ARE THE COMMON PITFALLS?
Most fathers – us included – have learnt the hard way. Do not take the advice of solicitors at face value. They will omit to tell you that the family justice system is broken and that up to 50% of court orders are flouted with impunity. Only Fathers4Justice can give you independent advice on the legal system and how to win your case.
IS THERE A FREE SERVICE I CAN USE?
F4J is not a charity and receives no government funding. We rely entirely on donations and other income to fund our campaign. We are currently trying to secure funding for a 24/7 free lifeline and confidential help service which will offer emotional support and practical advice to parents experiencing problems related to seeing their children and family breakdown.
WHAT DOES FATHERS4JUSTICE CAMPAIGN FOR?
We campaign for a legal presumption of 50/50 shared parenting between mothers and fathers. We believe that the best parent for a child is both parents. For further information visit our campaign page.
I AM FEELING DEPRESSED. WHERE CAN I GET HELP NOW?
If you are feeling depressed or suicidal call the Samaritans
I AM CONCERNED ABOUT THE WELFARE OF MY CHILDREN. WHO SHOULD I SPEAK TO?
If you have concerns about the welfare of a child contact the NSPCC
What families say about the F4J Help Service
“Your help during a trying time was priceless. Thank you again.” KA, Dad, London
“I can’t thank Fathers4Justice enough for the help and advice given. Huge thanks to you and your team, you are doing a fabulous and courageous job.” Jackie E, Grandmother, Kent
“I thought I would never see my son again. F4J guided me through the process and supported me. Not only did I start seeing him again, but he now lives with me.” Oliver S, Dad, Bridlington
“Do not suffer the nightmare alone…the support F4J offers is amazing.” D Smith, Dad London
“The best return on money I have ever spent. I really can’t thank you enough.” FB, Dad, London
“I spent over £250,000 on Mishcon De Reya solicitors who told me I could never get shared residence of my children. I went to court with Matt O’Connor from F4J and left with a shared residency order.” NS, Dad, London