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Long story short, most women know the law and they will dictate men. We men are deprived of help and have no legal standing.

You have 3 option –

1) to accept the situation and play along
2) keep your daughter and she will then have to apply to court for child custody
3) you can apply to court for more contact and overnight stays

I will be very clear, the law favours the mother and it is discriminating. It is always better to find solution out of courts. If you want to discuss in detail you can email me your number at [email protected].

Regards
Nas

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Hi Mate, have you read through this forum and some of my previous post? What age are your children? Go through the website and check some of the stuff on here

This is what I normally suggest: –

1) NEVER LEAVE the house, if she wants separation let her move out
2) As long you are on a birth certificate you can keep the children however best to compromise, try to avoid court and child custody battle, Fathers normally lose out

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Hey, I like what you are doing here, this system is set up to make money from us. By representing yourself you are not funding this system, well done.

Watch this video or at least watch it from 6-12 min https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ougMf7FpDP8.

Also feel free to get in contact for further advise my email is [email protected]

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I think you are up against the wall, the system is set up to take your money. The way it works is the longer they keep the children away from the father there is money to be made. There is no accountability and nothing is done on merit or consistency. I will not be surprised if he has to start the process again.

There is loads of good stuff on this forum, you need to navigate through all this stuff and ensure you get the right help.

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Hi Mate,

How is your court process going?

Regards
Nas

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Hi Mate,

Have you been through this forum and read other peoples comment. The system is disgusting and we need a change.

I would suggest to go through this forum and search for answers.

Nas

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Hi Fordey,

No you don’t need to tell her about your promotion or your income. I would strongly suggest before you do anything ensure you have covered your back.

What makes you think you will get 3 nights? If your ex throws domestic abuse at you be lucky to get to see your child in that year while the court sanctions a fact finding. They do not give a shit about fathers or the children, this system is hell bent on making money through mediation, solicitors and Mckenzie friends. “The longer the child is kept away from the father there is money to be made”.

Anyway good luck.

Regards
Nas

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What did your solicitor say? How old are you kids?

Read through the forum and there is some good info or you can email me at [email protected]

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Hey AJ,

I do not think Curtisa has a court order in place and either parent can refuse to return the kid, it is not legally binding. However try to stay on good terms with your ex partner. Again I would not recommend to leave the house or to contact CSA and court unless you know what you are doing.

The system is so discriminating that for most men going to court is suicide, you are literally jumping into fire and risking yourself to be burnt.

Regards
Nas

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1) DO NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE
2) ENSURE YOU KEEP CLOSE CONTACT WITH YOU KIDS
3) ENSURE YOU HAVE A VERY GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR KIDS, PAMPER, SPOIL AND PAY ATTENTION TO THEM. ENSURE THEY ARE ON YOUR SIDE HOWEVER DON’T POISON THEM
4) ANY ASSETS OR SAVINGS MOVE THEM TO A FAMILY/FRIEND YOU CAN TRUST

Do not let things go pear shaped before you got the above in order if you want the upper hand. How old are your kids, just keep a low profile and dont rise to her arguments.

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Mate, you should be happy she allows you 3 days to see your kids. Most mother will stop access just so they can claim more money and benefits by saying the child stays with them full time and the father has no contact.

The agreement you made is not legally binding and any of you can break it anytime. Tread carefully and play your cards right. You can contact me if you want and give me a breakdown who finance her accomodation/house, how much CSA you agreed with her, how old are the kids etc

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Are you serious? This website provides legal representation or a telephone consultation.

Take my advise do not use solicitors and represent yourself. If you are on the birth certificate I would keep the child and not return her. Let the mother go to court, why do men have to waste their money and apply to court.

Regards
Nas

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Hey Mo,

This is your 2nd post, best you can do is read through this forum and educate yourself how DISCRIMINATING this system is and don’t be shocked when the judge and the solicitor screws you too.

Family courts/CAFCASS are trained to help the mother and keep the child away from separated father. When most fathers do get access there will obstruction by the mother picking up the child and again mother has a license to break the court order. In practical the court order is a paper to wipe your arse with.

Write to your MP, we need a change and stop this discrimination against fathers.

Regards
Nas

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James, have you been through this forum? Sounds like your screwed if the courts cannot acknowledge the child stays with you.

I don’t think you got a leg to stand on, if your ex wants to go back on her word and not give you more than 2 days. She will claim CSA and benefits. Stay out of courts they are discriminating and write to your MP

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Hi,

I am going through family courts I had one overnight stay however with more allegations it is very likely soon I will lose contact to my son soon or may be put under supervision contact even after proven that I am no risk to my child and my wife is abusive with volatile behaviour. In family courts, expect to lose more time or a decision made on probability if you are lucky.

The system is unfair and DISCRIMINATING, a court order from Family Courts is a piece of paper to wipe your arse and they are never enforced, mothers have a license to break this order and lie at will. However we need to keep fighting. Why was the founder of this website Matt O’Connor successful? He fought his way in courts and staged a walkout that he will not accept discrimination and bias behaviour from the court.

I find too many fathers trying to compromise and lick the arses of the social workers/CAFCASS and courts. The court will tell us not to contact the police regardless if our son is danger? The Social Services/CAFCASS will manipulate separated parents to go to court and report domestic abuse etc. The Social Services will get play separated parents to do their dirty work. The corrupt barristers/solicitors will tell you not to challenge the authorities, “keep your mouth shut, leave the house and accept non-molestation order”. Before you know you spent £20,000 on the solicitors and they just screwed you.

We need to educate fathers DO NOT be fooled by this system and stand up for yourself and your kids. Don’t be afraid to say you not a danger/violent, will not abduct the child, are providing for the child then why should I be denied access or be put in a contact centre. Contact centre should be for parents who are a danger e.g paedophiles, mentally ill, alcoholic or drug addict parents.

We need to keep writing to our MPs/Councillors. My aim is to get this into parliament for reforms and challenge in higher/EU courts. If we bring one judge/social worker down on discrimination this will open the door for accountability.

Please see following video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ougMf7FpDP8&t=836s and or at least watch the video between 6-10mins.

See another link https://www.communitycare.co.uk/2017/06/06/social-worker-struck-lie-causes-children-removed-care/

Regards
Nas

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