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I tried my best to help Stuart but the whole system is against men. It is sad, very sad and upsetting what is going on.
Families Need Fathers are established in 1974, but have no voice and done nothing. I went to one of their meeting and it was like they were selling solicitors. I sacked my solicitor after first hearing and am glad I did, I rather just give that money to my partner to spend on my son or go on holiday than suffer depression. The judge and social services are trying to get me to use a solicitor coz it makes their work easy and most men will walk away after they are out of money, homeless and on their knees.
I am thinking of creating a whatsapp group for fathers for help and support.
The only 2 things I can think off is hiring an undercover couple to expose the trial and how discriminating the system is. Or we can work together and take one of the Children Services to court for discrimination and human right violations. We will need hard evidence and leak this to the media.
Nothing we or anyone can do. This system is crooked against men and we are to blame for it coz we are doing nothing.
Please sign and petition. Pass this on and post on twitter, facebook and instragram.
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/249833
The question is how can your ex look after her if she is 5 hour drive away and the other 2?
July 16, 2019 at 8:56 pm in reply to: Any fathers recently won full custody of their children #12198What sort of neglect? Email me at [email protected] for further assistance
How old are the kids? How long you been married?
In court you got no chance they will favour the mother no matter what. So best to put up with it or lose all access. If she plays her cards right she can do you for Domestic Abuse etc.. It is too easy for women to abuse the system
July 15, 2019 at 10:12 pm in reply to: Any fathers recently won full custody of their children #12191lol you are having a laugh. Court favours the women and the more allegations she make against you the less chance you have of seeing the kids.
You can only win if she is an outright danger to the kid. However nothing has been proven against her and she has custody, you are fighting a losing battle. The best you get in court is 1 night a week or a weekend stay every fortnight. Anything above you need to be extra nice to the judge/CAFCASS
how old are your kids? and do they want to stay with u
“I had an initial hearing and the barrister told me outright that dad’s have no chance of getting more than one night a week if the mum is being obstinate. The family court is a joke!!!”
He is one of the first barrister to tell you the truth and not drag you to courts and waste all your money. I would advise just to be nice to your wife and sweeten her before you go to court so she does not act awkward in court.
Do not move out of your house and I have not understood your last reply. Please email me at [email protected] for further assistance
Solly, am I reading this right? You had custody of the children and they were taken off you. Blimey!!!
Is there any consistency how men are treated in the family courts!!! So much evidence is given against women but they dismiss it as no danger to child. Yet any false allegations thrown at men and we get children removed from our custody. We need to start a campaign against this discrimination.
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https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/249833My wife has anger issues too, but now I stay calm and keep her sweet. Social Services have given her place but don’t like me talking to her and do not like me to continue the contact arrangement set by court by me having my son for 2 day a week. I want to drag the court/Social Services as much as I can seeing they like to discriminate fathers.
Only go to family courts if you got enough to waste their time and you want to have a bit of fun. £200 application fee is not enough for court time, £200 covers a judge one hour fee and if you take into consideration you have 10 hearing, CAFCASS/Children Services investigation, the court staff, interpreter, admin time and security etc it all adds up. They do not want you there so they want fathers to get lost and leave the children with the women.
By asking guys to use solicitors they know eventually most men will give up and end up without money to fight the case. It’s a MONOPOLY
Hi Sunny, best you can do is get back into bed with your ex or bribe her and don’t waste time on family courts. My wife has anger issues too, but now I stay calm and keep her sweet. Social Services have given her place but don’t like me talking to her and do not like me to continue the contact arrangement set by court by me having my son for 2 day a week. I want to drag the court/Social Services as much as I can seeing they like to discriminate fathers.
Only go to family courts if you got enough to waste their time and you want to have a bit of fun. £200 application fee is not enough for court time, £200 covers a judge one hour fee and if you take into consideration you have 10 hearing, CAFCASS/Children Services investigation, the court staff and admin time and security etc it all adds up. They do not want you there so they want fathers to get lost and leave the children with the women.
Why are you opening a new thread each time?
Too many men are daft and duped into using a solicitor/barrister in family courts,. They are the biggest waste of money and we are being conned. DO NOT USE solicitors in CHILD CUSTODY case, you are better off giving that money to your partner and bribe her to see the kid etc.
I paid £1500 to my solicitor for the first hearing and she was a shit solicitor. I was told by the judge to use a solicitor, yesterday after the court hearing the Social Services said she supports my case and to use a solicitor… SOLICITOR, SOLICITOR, SOLICITOR
Guess what! I spoke to someone last week and they told me they spent £20,000 on solicitors fighting child custody case and they are left with writing letters. This is a MAFIA and they will squeeze every penny of you.
Not sure what you mean. The judge did not turn up and sent a legal advisor, is that right?
Just tell the court your child is at risk and call the Social Services and tell them she is abusing your child. This will prolong the case. You can email me to exchange number for a quick chat at [email protected]
Men do not win in family courts. During yesterday court hearing I asked to have my child for a bank holiday weekend in August due to a family wedding, the judge kept asking my wife is it OK for me to have him for 2 overnights stay. She was reluctant but finally agreed however she could have declined and I would not have been able to do anything. What are the judges for if they do not have authority to make an order on merit and fair play basis to provide a father and child necessary time to spend during school holidays.
Why do family courts exist? I am sickened by this discriminating behaviour and worst of all no one is doing anything.
Please do all sign this petition, put it on facebook, twitter and instagram
That’s good the school said follow the court order. Do it discreetly, get there before her if you can and take custody of your son. If she kicks off a fuss in public place, call the police/teachers, stay calm, and don’t retaliate. Try and stand where the school cameras are and other people are watching. Just expose her behaviour and act dumb as if you are following the court order. Even get someone to video record her randomly and use everyone as your witness.
All your doing is picking up your son as put in place by the court which everyone should respect.
How old is your son? What do you know about her new partner? Get Sarah Law applied on him. Is it not better for her to leave your son with the father when she goes into labour.
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