Forum Replies Created
-
AuthorPosts
-
This forum is dead and I don’t think F4J is active. What advise do you need? You can email me on [email protected] and I can help you
Also sign this petition and pass on to as many people as you can
Try and reason with her, best to be civilised and behave reasonably. There is no law to protect men in Family Courts and women are not punished for breaking court orders set out by family courts. Seeing you have a court order in place and you should have a right to pick up your son on Friday. I do not think you should speak to the school teacher yet but on the day you can show the school and police the court order if needed so you catch everyone by surprise.
Best to provide more details, is this a shared custody, how often you pick up your son? etc. Who will look after your son when she goes into labour with her new born?
Email me on [email protected] to discuss further
Police, Children Services, Doctors, Health Visitors and Courts. You need to show them you are the main carer and the child need to be seen happy with you.
Don’t trust this system, they will kick you out of your house and give the child to the mother. They do NOT care about the child, the system is crooked and discriminating.
You have a good chance as she has current mental issues but if she gets woman aid involved and run of with the child what chance do you have? They will accuse you of everything for mentally and physically abusing her and trying to snatch the child of her. Yes they are allegations but you will be portrayed as a criminal and framed for domestic abuse.
What are you appealing for? Fathers do not have rights in child custody cases so your probably wasting your time.
We need to change the law but I don’t think anyone cares. If you look around, no one is campaigning or making any noises. Too many fathers just give up and get screwed over by courts. We are also conned money by the solicitors, they see fathers money as a free meal when they do fuck all and fathers only end up worse coming out of courts
Sign this petition and pass it onto as many people as you can
Will she bring your daughter back and not abduct her? Thats a mutual agreement between you and her if she asks you not to be there.
I would advise you keep showing the authorities you are the main carer, you have the custody of the children. Don’t move out of the house and keep all the cards as close to your chest.
You can email me for further advise at [email protected] and get as many people to sign this petition
Mate, that’s the first I heard a father winning shared custody. How did you manage that?
In short she is breaking a court order and it is a criminal offence. In child custody cases women can get away with murder so don’t expect anything sympathy. I don’t know your background story but if you back go to court, she will make more allegations and that the children are distressed seeing you etc. You will lose that access too, its a very scary system and all one sided.
Sign this petition
We need more men to sign this.
Mate, I be careful going to court too. they fuck you over too, no justice in this country. At least you got the house, don’t move out of the house and try to continue mediating through friends and family. Just play along with the mother and give her what she wants if you want to see your children.
Once the court order comes in you will not have room to manouvre and she will be in charge calling all the shots. Great idea, DO NOT USE SOLICITORS.
We can only expose this system if we get all men to start video recording undercover the CAFCASS/Children services meetings and have open courts for hearings. They need to change the system to have independent witnesses during investigations.
Its too easy for women to take the kids and fathers cannot see them again
Mate, I already told you to cover your back. Get any assets of your name and ensure she does not run away with the kids. You will turn up home and find she has taken your kids and all their clothes etc. She will use the kids to squeeze every penny off you and if you use solicitors they will screw you even more. A staff/admin from F4J will not help you.
Good Luck!!!
Hi mate,
You have a good chance as your wife has mental health problems. However show the courts and professionals you are supportive of your wife and you do not want to take the child away from her but she requires the right treatment and it may endanger your child when she has mood swings. DON’T give an impression you want to be in control and take the child away from your ex and you want to punish her and flex your muscle lol
DO NOT USE Solicitors, collect evidence and keep notes of all doctors, police, health visitors or social services/CAFCASS meetings. Try and get this in written as much as you can
Sign this petition and pass it onto many people
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/249833I am slightly confused what you are trying to say. Yes this system is sexist and discriminate against men.
You need to get as many people to sign this petition to change the law and send a letter to your MP
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/249833
You can email me directly at [email protected] or tell me more about your situation, how old is your kid, how long u been with your partner and what the dispute is over
Apologies, what you mean? Do you want more contact with your child
Good man Sunny. I have reported my local Social Services to Ombusdan and suggested the following : –
“The communication is very poor, meeting minutes are not provided ontime and we should have video/audio recordings for evidence. We need independent witnesses to sit some of these meetings to stop fathers from being discriminated.
Children services should address immediately in writing what safeguarding, precautions and checks they undertake to ensure a child danger is not compromised.
We need more male workers for support for fathers not to feel intimidated by the female workers. The meetings I have attended with Health Visitors, Interpretor, Social Workers and Children Services are all women and it is very difficult to put a man view across.
I can only suggest getting in qualified staff and better training will help improve the system.”
Good luck with that, this site is dead and don’t expect any response from F4J admin team.
You can email me at [email protected] for some assistance.
Contact the Social Services and get the ball rolling. She may have made lots of allegations e.g domestic abuse and child abuse. You need to be prepared and deny them all as well as raise any concerns you have along with evidence.
Solicitors are a waste of money and they will not upset the judges in courts. They will drag money out of you when you can just represent yourself.
-
AuthorPosts
