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Many applications are abandoned because fathers run out of money, suffer ill health or the ability to simply carry on. The cost of going to court can range from £10-£50,000 in a process that can take years. Many fathers cannot afford to go to court and spend thousands of pounds on a court order which has a 50% chance of being broken and will not be enforced by a judge. One study found contact decreases over time and breaks down entirely in over 20% of cases within 5 years (Simpson, McCarthy, & Walker, 1995).

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Have you been through this forum? You need to read other people comments to understand this corrupt system.

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Hi Chris,

Good idea! How do we contact you? Do you have an email?

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Have you been through this forum and seen other people posts? I suggest you read through them and see how biased this system is. This is what F4J is fighting for to change the law.

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Hi have you read through this forum and seen comments from others how family courts work.

Most fathers are in this situation and mothers have all the rights. The best thing you can do is avoid family courts at all costs and mediate through family and friends. You can email me if you want at [email protected] for a further chat.

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Is that what F4J do? take £30 every year

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You should also read F4J faqs and you learn a lot about the injustice in this system

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Hi Rebecca and bjpriddy007,

I am not sure how much you know about the system. It is corrupt and is set up to make money, the longer a child is kept away from a father there is money to be made. The system is too powerful to change and the only people who can lobby to change this for reforms in parliament are MPs whose hands are tied or not interested.

What we can do is encourage families to mediate through families and friends. I strongly advise not to use any government sponsored mediation, solicitors or social services, they make things worse and the minute a family step into the family courts you are signing your life, money, house and children over to them. We need to stop families from spending £50,000 in courts and blowing our kids inheritance. Mother are sucked into courts and are advised to make allegations and keep the children away from fathers. Short term mother wins but long term it has an impact on families financially and mentally.

Check this site out for details what I am talking about

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Have you read through this forum? You need to do your research or you will ending up spending a lot of money and the solicitors will take all your money

It is going to be a long and painfully slow battle to get your name on the birth certificate before you get contact order. Courts are time consuming and very costly. If you do go to court just represent yourself

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Have you been through this forum? You need to do your own research or you will end up spending a lot of money.

Meanwhile you can apply to courts and take prohibitive steps to stop her taking the children out of this country. However I will warn you court should be your last resort as they are very favourable to mothers and there is no faith in this system.

How old are your kids?

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Hey Michael, have you tried to contact the mother to sort this out? Read through this forum and you get an idea how bad this system is

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Let me guess the CAFCASS lied on their reports. You can challenge the report in court but with little chance. How old are the kids?

The system is disgusting and a money making machine with no interest of the child. You can email if you need further advise

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Have you gone through this forum and educated yourself what is going on? The system is set up to make money and Social Services/Courts are on the mother side. Your kids will be put at risk time and time again, you just have to watch and not able to do anything.

You should contact your MP, Social Services are very evil and twisted people. No winning against this system until we get together and change the law.

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The below is a line taken from F4J FAQ’s – The majority of parents make arrangements themselves and don’t go to court.

“The courts have created a culture, which extends far beyond the courtroom, in which mothers get custody and fathers get visitation. This arrangement is not stable, and deteriorates over time.”

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