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How old are your kids? Courts are not there to resolve anything, i will strongly advise to resolve this through dialogue. Children need both parents and seems like she let you have the kids while she is homeless. I would return the favour and let her have some access to the kids.
Of course I don’t know the full story, the mother may be evil and mental but revenge will not help the children either.
Courts have no interest to help children and they are there to make money. They will keep dragging you backward and forward through CAFCASS. You will just spend money in courts that is not worth it and is better off spent on the children.
Guys, watch this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRH1grAgvtc
The uncensored truth behind 99% of children being kidnapped from their homes and forced into foster care and adoption without the family’s consent, then the parents are threatened with prison if they dare to speak out about the injustice. Target driven social workers, county council legal teams, law society solicitors, over-paid expert witnesses, ex-social worker CAFCASS guardians, foster agencies, adoption agencies, and family court judges all profiting from the theft of children from ordinary loving homes.
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Are you on the birth certificate? I would trick her and keep the children, not return them. Let her apply to court if she is being a bitch and damaging the children.
Read through the forum and do some research. Get help and don’t waste money on solicitors
Hi mate, father 4 justice is one of the best website for fathers. You can see how discriminating the system is and fathers are only fighting a losing battle. We need to keep contacting our MP/Councillors and push for reforms in family court.
Have you seen this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ougMf7FpDP8
You can contact me if you need further help
Father 4 Justice is the best site for fathers. They do need to update some information but have you read through their FAQ’s and other posts on this forum. The below is from https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/about-f4j/campaign-faqs/ :-
“Most applications result in an order of some sort, but none of the orders are monitored and few are enforced. Many fail to provide anything that could be considered to provide adequate levels of contact. Many applications are abandoned because fathers run out of money, suffer ill health or the ability to simply carry on. The cost of going to court can range from £10-£50,000 in a process that can take years. Many fathers cannot afford to go to court and spend thousands of pounds on a court order which has a 50% chance of being broken and will not be enforced by a judge. One study found contact decreases over time and breaks down entirely in over 20% of cases within 5 years (Simpson, McCarthy, & Walker, 1995). This has been confirmed by other studies (Bradshaw, Stimson, Skinner, & Williams, 1999) (Peacey & Hunt, 2008).”
Absolutely disgusting. When are we going to do something about this? Have you written to your MP?
People do not believe me when I tell them these court orders are broken by the mother and not enforced by the court.
Mate, go through this forum. There is loads of advice and help. You can email me if you want on [email protected].
Hi Mate,
I think you are in the same place as the rest of us. Social Services/CAFCASS/Courts are not there to protect the children and the system stinks. They will not give the child to the father, they rather put the child in foster care to make money.
Have you been reading through this forum? You can apply to court but it will be a long and tough process and may not get you anywhere, also do not waste money on solicitors. You can email me if you want further assistance.
Good luck
Hi mate,
Women hold all the cards and they are encouraged to make domestic abuse claim. They will then extort money of you, keep the house and take most of your hard earned assets. The court will give the mothers the custody and if she is an evil women she can stop you seeing your kids. Simple as that.
Read through some of the posts on this forum and if you want you can contact me via email for further advice.
Good luck
Hi,
The mother can enforce the payment through CMS. You can check the government site what you should be paying.
Regarding contact I can tell you now the courts are very one sided to the mothers and it does not necessarily mean you will get any more contact. They will take your money and the rest you may waste through solicitors and still no progress. I will suggest over and over again that you try and resolve this issue through family and friends.
Feel free to contact me if you need more info.
Regards
NasHi Mate, this is disgusting and I am not surprised. We really need to come together and take some legal action against these evil Social Services. Currently the system is blocked and I do not think you can do much in family courts.
You can try contacting your MP or putting in a complaint Local Authority/Ombusden. Feel free to email me if you need further help.
Regards
NasMate, I suggest you go through this forum again and check what is going on.
You can email me your number if you want a chat, if you go to court you could end losing a bit of money, house and still have no contact. The mothers are trained to make false allegations and keep the kids away from the father. The system encourages parent alienation even though we are being told they act in the child best interest.
The courts have created a culture, which extends far beyond the courtroom, in which mothers get custody and fathers get visitation. This arrangement is not stable, and deteriorates over time.
Have you guys been through the F4J Campaign FAQ’s.
“Most applications result in an order of some sort, but none of the orders are monitored and few are enforced. Many fail to provide anything that could be considered to provide adequate levels of contact. Many applications are abandoned because fathers run out of money, suffer ill health or the ability to simply carry on. The cost of going to court can range from £10-£50,000 in a process that can take years. Many fathers cannot afford to go to court and spend thousands of pounds on a court order which has a 50% chance of being broken and will not be enforced by a judge. One study found contact decreases over time and breaks down entirely in over 20% of cases within 5 years (Simpson, McCarthy, & Walker, 1995). This has been confirmed by other studies (Bradshaw, Stimson, Skinner, & Williams, 1999) (Peacey & Hunt, 2008).”
In simple terms your wife is trying to screw you. These women know the law, they have many charities and support groups and law favours them unconditionally so they can play however they want. We men are deprived of support and help, there is no union or legal standing to help us.
You can go to court for contact, but I will not have high hopes. The court do not provide relief to fathers, it like kicking a men that is down. Try to reason with your ex-partner out of court
Hi,
Sorry to hear about your story. UK Family Courts are not very helpful and a lot of people feel, they do not help families. They are there to make money, you will hear a lot of stories where they leave the child with an unhealthy mother.
The best case scenario for you would be to somehow manipulate the situation with her parents and get your wife to sign the consent documents, bring them back to UK and get your wife treated. Your wife is not well and you have to find a solution with her parents to help you. If you go through the legal route it can take a long time, will be costly financially and emotionally very stressful. I would suggest stay in close contact with her family.
Regards
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