I’m still experiencing not seeing my children though. It’s been over a month, and the way things are going I will probably have to take her to court to see them so potentially it could be a very long time until I see them again.
My wife locked me out the house after tricking me to go stay at my parents for a week. Called the police to report me for aggression, changed the locks and put all my belongings in the garage. 10 days later she applied for a non molestation order against me, based on all lies.
Before she did that, I made it clear to her that if she played ball, I would be more than financially generous. She still decided to go down the most difficult road possible. She asked the courts to impose me paying the rent where she is living, applied for CMS where I pay £411 a month and now she is pestering me about paying half the nursery fees which is £545 a month!! I still pay half the rent where she lives until the end of the tenancy because we are joint tenants, I have to.
She said by text ‘it’s not fair to expect me to pay the whole nursery Bill’ I can’t even reply because it would be breaching the Non molestation order. I feel like replying well it’s not fair that you not letting me see my girls and I pay for child care and they nor even staying with me!!!
I do not understand how her brain is functioning at the moment. She is beyond unreasonable.
My prediction is that if I don’t pay nursery fees, she is going to refuse mediation so I have to take her to court
