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May 31, 2017 at 10:38 pm in reply to: MPs and would be MPs are very open to discussion at the moment #8188
This is great NHunt. More of us need to be doing this.
My current MP backed the private members bill and is very pro father but it seemed worth sounding out the Lib dem candidate running against him.
More of us on here need to be doing it and pushing others fathers to go after potential MPS and people with clout within local parties. Chase the Lib dems into adopting equal parenting. They favour legalisation of cannabis but not yet equal parenting.
We also need to push the conservatives more. This is just backbenchers at the moment in the ruling party but we need to push it so that more MPs get behind Suella Fernandes.
Labour, Corbyn and all the Ultra feminists within their ranks are a lost cause. They are too gutless to back equal parenting and face a feminist revolt within their party.
UKIP already backs equal parenting, SNP looks pretty much in favour north of the border. Maybe Greens and other can be brought on board. No more costumes. Just a slow build up of support for equality.
Saying that though I loved Bobby Smith in the Elmo costume photo bombing Cameron as he went to vote at the last election and then being up on the stage with him. It would be worth some of us next Thursday morning being out in Theresa May’s constituency to line up in front of the media as they all wait to get shots of her entering her polling station. Big banners about gender inequality and state supported child kidnap.
May 28, 2017 at 3:13 pm in reply to: MPs and would be MPs are very open to discussion at the moment #8130This is the response I got:
Thank you for your email.
I would have no hesitation in supporting the elements of Suella Fernandes’ private members bill that are concerned with shared parenting and incentives and penalties that encourage parents to build a loving relationship between both parents and their children. In my mind there is no greater gift a parent can give their child if they have been unfortunate enough for the relationship between the two parents to break down. I have particular personal experience of this issue and it is a matter I have campaigned on and supported for many years.
In terms of the Liberal Democrat manifesto, there is no specific reference to this issue, but it seems to be an issue that the party would normally support so I’ll be happy to promote it for inclusion in our next manifesto and to encourage support for the private members bill mentioned above, if it is still listed in the new Parliament.
Kind regards
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Liberal Democrat Candidate for ************
May 28, 2017 at 10:32 am in reply to: Wife wants to leave with the kids to France – should I contest in the courts? #8122Move to Marseille yourself? Then you will be the one who is isolated and divorce proceedings will be brought in French courts in your wifes first language.
My honest opinion is that you will be walking into a trap if you move. Stay in the UK, continue making money and buying the ex off so that she stays. She can visit Marseille outside of school time and reconnect with her Provencal roots.
Controlling behaviour. Perfectly normal behaviour for a woman but if men act in that way it is cause for concern and supervised contact.
Go with it. The courts will let something like this slide and arguing over it may see your ex withhold contact.
Sounds like hell. There was a guy on the wikivorce forum who was trying to get by sharing the house with his ex and it really turned bad. She was bringing different guys back to the house to shag and despite the kids being in the home he was told he could not refuse entry to his wifes’ guests. It can get very ugly if the other party decides to fight dirty to get you out.
Get a solicitor but be aware that the courts are not a friend. They will still pander to the mother and even if you got court orders in your favour they are unenforceable. Mother can say no on the day of court ordered contact and nobody will enforce the order or punish her.
You have to think smart. Become a skilled manipulator and make the mother feel she is taking advantage of you by getting you to babysit your son. Right now she is using him to extort money.
Good luck with playing in France. Lots of banks and insurance companies in the city of London will take you on once your playing career ends because of your high profile sports career. Network and research what basic qualifications they would want but I reckon QBE or similar companies would leap at the chance to sign a pro rugby player.
May 10, 2017 at 6:54 pm in reply to: childs mother wants to move to germany (shes under a supervision order) #7979Sheer lunacy but we get a new one of these every week in here. Mothers who think nothing of relocating on a whim despite the harm it does to everyone else and the courts pander to this sense of self entitlement.
Sounds like you have solid reasons to oppose this but you never can second guess what a judge will rule on the day.
If the children are with you then there is a good chance you will get to move back in but I doubt they will turf the mother out without a good option to re-house her.
Really for this kind of legal query the forum over at wikivorce is invaluable. Lots of free legal advice to be had there just be aware that they are very pro legal profession and will encourage you to spend your money on court proceedings.
My best guess is that with your past you are never going to be viewed in anything but an unfavourable light by judges and social services so going to court is futile.
You will have to dance to the mothers tune. Be a good father and ex so that the mother comes to view you in a positive light.
Good luck
Not much he can do. This is sadly the system. It rewards people who abduct children from the other parent and then keep them in the dark.
Submit an application for contact and prepare him for the worst. It could be months before he sees the children again.
Only alternative is to snatch the children in the same way the ex has but hopefully you will not stoop that low.
Robert I am willing to meet up in Islington and assist. From what I remember from 3 years ago the application was relatively straight forward C100 + attached forms. 3-4 copies and all submitted in person at the county court.
You will then have to organise a date to go see a mediator. Then you will then get a directions hearing (ex does not need to be present) and then a full hearing. Just make sure you enter a position statement for each hearing and follow the format which is detailed online.
It is not the simplest of tasks but you do not need a legal background to be able to successfully bring an application before the court.
Honest opinion? She wants nothing to do with you and the courts are largely toothless to enforce the rights of purely biological fathers.
Walk away and next time make sure you shoot your load outside.
I think you already know that nobody can answer that. Family law is very much a random game of chance.
There is no strict application of laws and judges are free to impose their own judgement in direct violation of family law.
All comes down to which judge you get and how they are feeling on the day.
Do you feel lucky because for most men the odds are heavily stacked against us. Even the gaming industry would blush at a system that is this rigged.
We are all in the same boat. 100,000s of us in the UK alone. Take encouragement from the fact that we are all discriminated against in this way and subjected to the worst injustices known to the British legal system. Feminists who go around still repeating the old lie that women are downtrodden and the victims of sexism have no idea of the reality of life for divorced fathers.
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