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May 18th, 2016

The demonisation of dads is killing kids

murdered by mum

When will we learn.

Yesterday, another mum was sent to prison for stabbing her children to death.

That isn’t to say fathers don’t commit equally heinous crimes, because they do.

But what is desperately frustrating and tragic, is that we keep putting children at risk because of our obsession with demonising dads when they are statistically the safest parent for a child to be with.

A father is, generally, the child’s natural protector.

Yet, upon entering our cruel and degrading family justice system, fathers are judged to be an automatic risk to their kids. They are risk assessed by Cafcass. Tortured with the dangled opportunity of pathetic ‘contact’ with their children, whilst mum can bring home the next Peter Sutcliffe, Roy Whiting of Ian Huntly and nobody gives a damn.

Our Dickensian legacy of failing to protect children is a national disgrace.

Below, is a roll call of shame; the tragic kids who lost their lives because in too many cases, mums were judged to be incapable of harming their children and their fathers were denied any access to them – often on the basis of false allegations.

Sigmund Freud was famously quoted as saying, “I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father’s protection.”

Being unable to protect your child is every dad’s worst nightmare. The courts and child protections services must stop gender stereotyping.

For our children’s sakes, they must accept that abuse has no gender.

 

Matt O’Connor, founder, Fathers4Justice

 

BRITAIN’S ROLL CALL OF SHAME

1.    Baby Peter Connolly, Aged 17 months: Beaten to death. Father denied access to his son on the basis of false allegations. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Baby_P

2.    Daniel Pelka, Aged 4: Starved to death. Father separated from his son. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Daniel_Pelka

3.    Hamzah Khan, Aged 4: Starved to death. Father denied access to his son. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-24388175

4.    Mikaeel Kular, Aged 3: Killed by his mother who then dumped & hid is body. The father, Zahid Saeed, was denied access to his son, then denied access by Social Services to his daughter even after the mother had been sent to prison. The mother still had access to their daughter.
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/mikaeel-kular-mum-living-luxury-7039163

5.    Blake Fowler, Aged 7: Killed by his mother and boyfriend after suffering a catalogue of abuse, often arriving at school with bruises and once being admitted to hospital with a swollen penis. The father was separated from the mother. http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-hampshire-31514908

6.    Ayeeshia Jane Smith, Age 21 months: Suffered 120 injuries from her mum and partner which were likened to those of a car crash victim. Father separated from his daughter and had raised concerns with social services. Ayeeshia’s father Ricky Booth said of social services, “When they gave her back to her mum they signed her death warrant. They handed her back to a murderess and her thug boyfriend. I wish they had given me the opportunity. She would have been fed, clothed, loved — and still alive. But social services thought they knew better.”
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/7064527/Agony-of-Ricky-Booth-at-murder-of-daughter-Ayeeshia.html

7.    Liam Fee, Aged 2: Murdered by mum and her partner.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/7130241/Liam-Fee-murder-trial-Jurors-weep-as-they-see-video-of-lifeless-toddler.html

8.    Keegan Downer, Aged 18 months: murdered by foster mum, Kandyce Downer. Sustained over 200 injuries. http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/7126510/Pictured-Horror-injuries-of-tragic-tot-battered-to-death-by-her-evil-foster-mum.html

9.    Evelyn Lupidi, Aged 3 and Jasmine Weaver, Aged 17 months: Stabbed to death by mum. http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/7137588/Mum-stabbed-daughters-aged-3-and-17-months-to-death-and-said-if-I-cant-have-them-he-cant-them-either.html 

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